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When Divorce Is and Isn’t About the Money

Anyone going through divorce knows it is costly and not without repercussions. For one thing, the adage two people can live more cheaply than one definitely holds true. Two homes or apartments, each with separate utility expenses and other maintenance costs create a greater expense than one residence. In addition to dividing assets and paying for lawyers, each spouse starts a new life with less income.

Divorce Takes a Toll on Economics

Economicdevelopment.org1 reported studies conducted in 2012 that showed when divorce rates dropped, economic health increased and vice versa. This is not only true individually but also on a national basis.

It is a fact that women and children experience a significant decline in income following divorce.2

As it stands, divorce rates for first marriages have dropped and are now at 41 percent. One factor leading to lower divorce rates is that many couples now marry later in life. Later in life marriages tend to last and not end in divorce. Also, fewer people are marrying.

Granted, some couples may stay together for financial reasons, and this is especially true if they are in a low conflict marriage. Marriage counseling and mediation helps many couples resolve their differences short of getting a divorce.

So, given the fact that divorce is not good for economics on a personal or national level, why are divorce rates so high?

When Divorce Is Not About the Money

Today’s statistics show women initiate divorces more than men do, by 70 percent 3.

A relatively new study by the University of Arizona and University of Colorado Boulder3 found that unhappiness was a main factor in women’s initiation of divorce. Women in general are more concerned about the quality of their marriage and relationships than men are.

Researchers studied 1,639 men and women between the ages of 25 and 74 who were married when they first took a personality test and divorced when taking the test 10 years later.

Women with much lower quality marriages than average experienced greater happiness after divorce than women who stayed in comparable marriages. However, women in marriages that were just slightly lower in quality than average were less satisfied after divorce than women who stayed in comparable marriages.

Women’s Vs. Men’s Views on Marriage

Despite the fact that men are far less likely to experience an income decline after divorce, they are also more content about staying in a low quality marriage. In fact, research showed divorce had either little or no effect on their level of life satisfaction.

If you have questions about divorce or family law litigation, Attorney Chris Palermo is glad to provide you with legal help.

References:

1 Economicdevelopment.org http://economicdevelopment.org/2014/12/the-impact-of-divorce-on-americas-economy/

2Future of Children http://www.futureofchildren.org/publications/journals/article/index.xml?journalid=63&articleid=411&sectionid=2802

3 Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why

4 Fusion http://fusion.net/story/126905/divorce-study-marital-happiness/