Picture this: you’ve just made the heart-wrenching decision to end a marriage, and the emotional weight feels heavy enough. Then the dollars and cents start swirling in your head. How will you keep the roof over your head? Can you cover daycare on a single income? These worries are common for Suffolk County residents moving toward divorce, and that is precisely where spousal support (often still called “alimony”) steps in. Let’s break down what maintenance is, how New York courts calculate it, and practical steps you can take to secure the financial breathing room you need.
New York’s Domestic Relations Law now uses the term “maintenance”, but everyday folks (and plenty of lawyers) still say “alimony.” Whatever label you use, it’s a court-ordered payment from the higher-earning spouse to the lower-earning spouse to ease the transition from married life to financial independence. In Suffolk County, judges follow statewide guidelines but retain considerable discretion once they’ve run the numbers.
New York employs a two-step formula that accounts for each spouse’s income. As of 2025, the income cap used in the calculation is $203,000. Judges take:
The court chooses the lower of the two figures, with a final cap to ensure the recipient isn’t awarded more than the payor actually earns. If either spouse’s income exceeds $203,000, the judge may consider the excess, but only after weighing the statutory factors (see next section). While the math can look intimidating, the important takeaway is this: the guideline is a starting point, not the last word. Your unique facts still matter.
Judges in Suffolk County must weigh 15 factors under §236(B)(6), including:
By preparing clear documentation such as pay stubs, tax returns, childcare receipts, and even a résumé, you empower the court to see the full picture rather than a cold printout from a software program.
New York suggests ranges tied to marriage length:
For example, if you were married for 12 years, the statutory guideline suggests support between 1.8 and 3.6 years. A judge can deviate up or down so long as they explain why. Common reasons include disability, an infant child at home, or a significant disparity in retirement savings.
Life rarely stays still. Suppose you lose your job or your ex doubles their income. Either party may petition the Suffolk County Supreme Court for a modification by showing a substantial change in circumstances. Remarriage or cohabitation by the recipient often terminates support, but read your judgment carefully—some orders require a new court filing, while others end automatically.
If a former spouse falls behind, New York gives you several enforcement avenues:
Act quickly; judges dislike arrears piling up because they create hardship and hostility.
Thanks to the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, maintenance is no longer deductible for the payor, nor is it considered taxable income to the recipient for divorces finalized after December 31, 2018. Budget accordingly; that change often shifts negotiations because the higher-earner no longer harvests a tax benefit for writing the checks.
While online calculators offer ballpark figures, real cases hinge on narrative and nuance. An experienced local attorney:
Divorce is never just paperwork; it’s a pivotal moment to secure stability for yourself and any children who rely on you. If you are wondering whether you can obtain spousal support in Suffolk County, let’s talk. Chris Palermo has guided Long Islanders through complex maintenance cases for more than two decades, blending sharp legal strategy with down-to-earth advice. Reach out today and schedule a confidential consultation to chart your next chapter with confidence.